In 2020 it can be amazingly hard to find long-term couples who have lasted through the years and decades. The nation has long been filled with cynicism towards long-term relationships, much less marriages that last. In fact, in the 1980s some states have a 50 percent divorce rate within five years of marriage. However, these couple photos prove that it is very possible for couples to not just last but to beacons of hope for others that things can last a lifetime. And the photos show them anywhere from 15 to 40 years apart, even 60 years in some cases, being together.
These before and after photos of the same couples have take decades to create, but you’ll probably agree the photos are simply a recognition of an amazing feat by these people to make what many would argue impossible these days happen. And they’ve done with a personal love for each other that keeps them together through, as the old saying goes, thick and thin. Take a look:
Couple in a Limo
This photo could have been taken in any medium town on a special date with a couple in a limo going to the big event. However, this particular couple did it all over again decades later. As one definition put it, love is a complex combination of mental states, all of which are felt to the deepest level and strongest intensity even over the smallest things.
A Couple at the Beach
The definition of love has been attempted over the years by writers, playwrights, leaders and preachers. At the end of the day, however, everyone agrees it involves a very strong sense of affection for another, so strong that people will give up everything else for, even staying together for 50 years. And then people open their eyes and realize they shared a lifetime.
Hugh Jackman and Deborra-Lee Furness
Known on the silver screen for his amazing portrayal of the comic book hero, Wolverine, Hugh Jackman has been the poster boy for many a female fan. However, despite all his fandom and followers as he has moved from movie to movie, Jackman himself has been faithful to his long-standing wife, Deborra-Lee Furness. She was there for him before his fame, and she continues to be today.
Love is Royalty
As the Queen of England and her husband have proven, love can also be royal and set the example for a nation in terms of how to maintain a marriage.
20 Years Yesterday
Many times the ancient Greeks spent a lot of time discussing love in it’s various forms. This could spent two decades proving that love in all four forms keeps a couple together, including: romantic love, friendly love, divine love and familial love.
At the Golden Gate Bridge
This couple made a point of showing time passing from an original visit at the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco and then again later in life. The could easily guess a few synonyms with the word “love,” including closeness, warmth, endearment, fondness of, loyalty to and attachment.
A Ride in the Park Carousel
Park carousels are always good for a couple’s photo, so these folks decided to do it all over again but with different rides this time. Love has been expressed in countless ways, but many associate the emotion with the best of humanity in compassion, empathy, affection and kindness.
The Classic High School Western Romance
Some couples are able to dig special photos of when they were first dating and then repeat them again, as in the case of this western theme replay. They end up being the muse for writers who talk about love in books and stories in all its forms.
Love Birds for 29 Years
This couple has almost made three decades when their photos were matched. And what they find, like many others who last as long, is that love doesn’t always have to be mad and passionate. It can also be impersonal, just doing good things for each other or working together to help someone else.
A Quarter Century
25 years doesn’t seem like a lot, but when it is described in terms of a quarter of a century, then the ramifications of staying together like this couple become more apparent. They become the living example of love between human beings.
Kurt Russel & Goldie Hawn
Both accomplished actors in their own right, Kurt Russel and Goldie Hawn proved the typical Hollywood stereotype wrong, staying together for years and years and still going strong today. In fact, the two like each other so much, they made a movie spoofing it with “Overboard.”
Once Cheerleaders, Always Cheerleaders
This young couple started out as toddlers without really knowing it. Sometimes, like love is defined in the dictionary, the connection between people may very well be instinctual and there since birth. However, humans technically are not supposed to have that trait. Some disagree.
Jeff Bridges and Susan Geston for 38 Years
Not to be outdone by another actor, Jeff Bridges and his partner Susan Geston met decades ago on a movie set in Montana of all locations. He though the moment they met was just a memory until a production photographer found the photographs taken without them knowing and showed the two talking to each other for the first time.
Ted Danson & Mary Steenburgen
It’s not a surprise that actors get together when working a set. They spend countless hours together rehearsing and speaking script phrases that end up triggering emotions. That was the case for Ted Danson and his partner, Mary Steenburgen while working on “Pontiac Moon.” Since that film, the two have been together well over 20 something years since.
Fur Coat Going to Prom
The prom night or special high school dance was for many couples the first time to really get dressed up. This couple did it again years later. As many experts point out, attraction brings us together, but attachment keeps couples strong.
The U2 Frontman
In an industry buried with stories of cheating, multiple wives and partners and broken hearts, U2 frontman, Bono, has remained committed to his wife whom he met when his band was first breaking out and going international. He has stayed committed ever since.
Three Decades Together
How do you spend 30 years together and then keep going? It happens with a lot of connection and devotion. Maintaining sexual desire doesn’t hurt either.
Pictures at a Fading Seashore
Sometimes staying together over the years is as simple as walking on a beach and remembering everything a couple has accomplished in love, raising and family and building a home.
31 Different Years, Same Church
Of course, with love it helps to stay rooted to for stability. This couple did so, going back to the same church they originally took their exit photo at when first being married.
24 Years for John Travolta
His wife has now passed from cancer, but John Travolta and Kelly Preston also bucked the Hollywood trend staying married and connected through everything. Scientists often attribute this kind of bond to chemical changes in the brain that happen over time, reinforcing long-term couples.
Lionel Messi & His Childhood Crush
Even famous soccer stars stay with those they love. Lionel Messi married his childhood sweetheart, probably because she was the only one who really knew him as a kid growing up.
32 Years From a Tank Top
This fellow could have dressed a bit better at the time, but she still loved him. And 32 years later the couple prove that how you dress on a first date isn’t always a deal-breaker.
And 60 years in Love
However, the cake goes to those couples who practically live longer than a half century together and still keeping things going strong in love. This couple is an example for everyone.
A Homemade Bench Shows up the Local Government
Sometimes a person just has to take matters into his own hands.
Today, a simple but powerful bench is located on a particular street in the town of A Estrada, Spain. The bench is nothing in terms of anything fancy, but the story behind it makes the outdoor furniture very unique.
A Couple Just Wanted to Keep Up Daily Walks
The carpenter who crafted the wooden bench was a former lathe craftsman. However, years after his career, he realized in his 80s both he and his wife needed a simple place to sit as they walked back and forth when going for a daily walk. Walking has been strongly advised for seniors worldwide in terms of keeping their mobility and mental acuity, but for Manuel Souto and his wife, Maria, things were getting a bit harder due to her osteoarthritis. Simply put, walking was becoming more difficult.
A simple bench along the normal walkway would have made a big difference, so Manuel pitched to the local city council a request for benches to be installed. Unfortunately, the council wasn’t interested in the idea and refused. So, Manuel decided to solve the problem himself.
Solving a Problem the Old-Fashioned Way
In about 30 minutes or so, according to Manuel, he was able to craft the bench. With some wood, a home saw and a bit of creativity, Manuel shaped, cut, formed and finished a working bench that could sit at least two people in a sturdy fashion without any concern. Of course, in hindsight, the bench could have used a bit more work and some protective veneer, but the assembly did the job. So, with the approval of the local shop owner, Manuel had the bench installed outside right on the Suotos daily walking path.
Maria loved the bench. As soon as she saw the outdoor furniture and realized it’s purpose, she turned and gave Manuel a big hug and kiss. Of course, being a public bench, the Soutos aren’t the only ones using the town bench. Many locals love it as well as visitors. However, Manuel has made it clear the bench should be made available to seniors as first priority. Of course, his methods are simplistic as they are direct; he left the message on the bench with a permanent marker pen.
The council might have been a put off a bit by the upstaging Manuel pulled off, but they haven’t reacted with much more. Manuel jokes he could be arrested, but then somebody would have to provide him with his smoking tobacco. Overall though, people have been quite positive about the whole affair. And, no surprise, Manuel has gotten repeated requests for more benches. Unfortunately, he’s not interested in starting a whole new career at 82. Manuel is quite happy with the one that he shares with his wife on their walks.
Hero Risks Life to Save Drowning Woman — and They Fall in Love!
When Nupur Gupta waded into the Arabian Sea off the balmy beaches that speckle Goa’s coastline, she did not know what was about to happen. Gupta had been visiting Goa, India, for a two-week vacation retreat for yoga enthusiasts. It was early 2019 and the weather was warm, bright, and balmy. At the time, Goa’s beaches were brimming with a warm glow while the sea beckoned Gupta in. What could go wrong?
By the time that Gupta realized she had been pulled out to sea, it had become too late. Gupta says to CNN Travel, “I tried not to panic.” Or at least that was what she thought. Instead, a figure appeared in the water and her life was saved.
Miracle and the Sea
Goa is located on the southwestern coast of India, geographically located within the region we know as Konkan. Goa has a huge international tourism sector that continues to grow by leaps and bounds thanks to the beautiful white-sand beaches and rich natural wonders surrounding the region. For Nupur Gupta, a visit to Goa meant an escape from her grind and a chance to refresh at a yoga retreat. It also meant that she would come close to drowning at sea.
When Gupta realized that she had been pulled too far from shore to easily swim back, she had to stop herself from panicking. Taking deep breaths, Gupta shifted her focus toward incremental progress. “If I constantly and with consistency keep swimming… I might make it.”
By the time that Gupta realized the error in her thought process, it was too late. Her arms were failing and her strength was going with it. As she began to crawl back to shore through the waves, the current kept dragging her back, pushing her further away from the surface.
It was at this moment when it would have been so easy to give up, that a miracle manifested. Gupta said of that moment, “Then I saw this man coming towards me.”
Meet Attila Bosnyak
Attila Bosnyak had been visiting India from his home in the Netherlands. A financial adviser comfortably in his forties, Bosnyak was also a student at the yoga retreat that Gupta had been attending. A strong swimmer and apparently an alert one as well, Bosnyak saw Gupta’s struggle and dove into the waves after her.
As Bosnyak neared Gupta, he felt the waves get stronger with the current. Despite his lack of fear, he was still struggling. It was at the last moment that Bosnyak struck out his arm. Gupta says of that moment, “He came very close to me but just about that time, I was pulled in by the ocean.”
Bosnyak knew he wasn’t strong enough to haul Gupta back to shore. Trying to remain as calm as possible, Bosnyak would help Gupta swim to a cluster of rocks nearby. They figured that they could climb onto the rocks and hold on for dear life while waiting for a lifeguard to notice. The process was rocky and Gupta thought several times that her savior might lose his way, but they eventually made it.
After making it to the rock, Bosnyak climbed atop before pulling Gupta after him. Thankfully, it wasn’t long before a lifeguard saw them atop the rocks. It was around this time that Bosnyak realized he had been covered in bloody scratches from holding onto Gupta and the rocks.
Once they returned to shore, Gupta and Bosnyak would spend time together. Gupta would run to a nearby store where she’d get disinfectant and, randomly, chocolate ice cream to share. Bosnyak says, “I think that was the magic moment.”
Bosnyak and Gupta would end up traveling the world, visiting Bosnyak’s family in the Netherlands, before officially getting married on March 21, 2020.
Couple Adopts Deaf Norfolk Sheepdog And Trains Her With Sign Language
Oftentimes you hear that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks but this sheepdog you’re about to learn about proved that adage wrong.
Nothing is impossible when an individual or an animal in this case is determined to accomplish it and this dog has achieved a major feat.
When a sheepdog could no longer hear and lost her ability to assist with farm work, she was surrendered to the RSPCA. The dog was taught a kind of sign language, allowing her to “resume the job she loved very much.”
In 2018, a charity team member went ahead and adopted Peggy who is a collie. The woman’s husband works as a shepherd in Norfolk.
The couple started the lengthy process of teaching Peggy to herd via the use of hand signals instead of the typical voice commands.
Along with the couple’s two other pets, Peggy is now living part-time with them.
Peggy was a “bright and successful sheepdog,” however she ended up losing the ability to hear and therefore her potential to communicate with her handler, according to the RSPCA.
The Mid and North Norfolk branches of the charity received the dog from a farmer. The eight-year-old dog ended up where animal welfare manager Chloe Shorten served.
It was just before Christmas that Peggy headed home to dwell with the Shortens as well as their two additional sheep dogs who worked on the farm because there was no space in the kennels.
Mrs Shorten said, they were aware that Peggy wanted to work, so they began the extended procedure of instructing the dog being able to herd and toil alongside a shepherd with no need to depend on vocal commands.
They began by instructing her to recognize hand gestures by looking at us.
Instead of combining a verbal order with an activity, they’d utilize a physical hand gesture, the author said.
Peggy learned to read hand signs and body language with the aid of a sheepdog teacher.
Mrs Shorten said the process took time, and Peggy had to understand that they love her – and comprehend when they were praising her.
She explained that giving a thumbs up meant “nice girl.”
Although the collie is basically retired, she still works with Mrs Shorten’s husband on occasion. Peggy is required to don a GPS bracelet during play time because she races around so fast and is unable to hear when her owners beckon her to return.
Mrs Shorten said, it’s wonderful to look at Peggy having this new focus on life and loving her life with her family.
She added that Peggy is evidence that an old dog can learn new tricks and is a perfect example of a dog’s capability – even if they happen to lose any of their senses.
Meanwhile, Peggy continues to work happily on the farm as though she never lost her hearing. Additionally, it appears that retirement is just a word because she shows no signs of stopping anytime soon.
As Penguin Population Drops, Island Residents Send in Dogs to Save the Day
Middle island is a rocky outcropping just off the southwestern shores of Victoria, Australia. Located a short drive away from the city of Warrnambool, Middle Island would quickly gain a reputation for its teeming wildlife population. More specifically, Middle Island became a national point of pride thanks to the many breeding colonies of Eudyptula Minor and Ardenna Tenuirostris located on the property.
Due to its close proximity to the shore, Middle Island has become particularly beholden to predators during its low tide. Foxes and stray dogs have increasingly found the island to utilize it as a source of food, killing hundreds of penguins along the way. As a result of this dramatic and steep decline in the population of penguins on Middle Island, the Maremma Sheepdog project would come to fruition.
Meet the Little Penguins of Middle Island
The smallest known species of penguin, the Little Penguin — or Korora — reaches an average height of 13 inches and an average length of 17 inches. Found throughout Southern Australia as well as New Zealand, the Little Penguin has been calling Middle Island its home for more than 30 years when thousands of little animals covered the area.
As natural predators made their way to Middle Island, it was clear that the penguin population could not sustain itself against their onslaughts. Low tide would become synonymous with chaos and residents in the area knew that the penguins wouldn’t last forever if the issue were not addressed. Rather than simply watching as the penguins were eradicated by predators, locals decided to get involved with the Maremma Sheepdog Project.
Protecting Penguins: Mission for the Maremma Sheepdog
Major problems often require creative solutions and that is exactly how the Maremma Sheepdog project came to life. A local chicken farmer by the name of Allan Marsh would go on to suggest that the Maremma breed be used to protect local penguin colonies. This breed of dog had long been used for the protection and transportation of livestock, so the plan made sense from the beginning. Marsh would go on to say, “There was a penguin colony constantly being marauded by foxes.”
Maremmas have been bred for centuries as livestock guardians indigenous throughout Italy, particularly Southern Italy’s Tuscany region. Marsh would take his suggestion to the Warrnambool City Council, and it was that governing body that would approve a month-long trial. Marsh would complete the trial by pointing out, “The presence of the dogs kept foxes from going on the island.”
Ever since the project was first established, the penguin population has continued to surge in response. From potential threat of extinction to fully protected colonies, there are now close to 200 Little Penguins on the island and county with breeding occurring every season. Trish Corbett would head the Middle Island Penguin Project and opine, “We know the dogs work — it’s fantastic.”
While the Maremmano Sheep Dog has become a savior for penguins in Middle Island, they continue to perform as admirable livestock guardians throughout Central and Southwestern Italy.
95-year-old Veteran Gets Surprise Parade For His Birthday
These days, living to retirement has been eluding many, whether because of a pandemic, chronic illness, car accident, and all the different factors that have been shortening the life expectancy of many.
Therefore, it is a big deal when some can live to see their 95th birthday and be in their right frame of mind to enjoy it and express their appreciation.
That was the case for a senior citizen recently who got the surprise of his life when the entire town celebrated his special day with him uniquely and beautifully, leaving him in awe.
Just over a year ago, Vermont was planning for an extraordinary shutdown due to a pandemic that shook the world to its core. It was on March 7, 2020, the date of Jim Hasson’s 94th birthday.
Now, one year later, things were looking up on Sunday, the Cavendish man’s ninety-fifth birthday. He’d just had his second dose of COVID-19 vaccine and sat in a chair lounging in the vicinity of Main Street under a chilly light blue sky.
Those inside waved, honked, and shouted birthday greetings as a surprise convoy consisting of over fifty fire units, police cars, and passenger vehicles drove by where he was seated.
Some people attired in masks, pulled up to salute Hasson and deliver treats and cards to the elderly veteran. Hasson’s smile could be seen right through his mask.
Despite his age, Mr. Hasson has an amazing sense of humor and is able to find humor in most situations.
Mr. Hasson joked that if he had known reaching age ninety-five would have been such a pleasure, he would have definitely hit that milestone eons ago and that he isn’t used to being in the spotlight, but it was a memorable day for him.
Last spring, Seven Days met the retired plumber, a World War II, and Vietnam War veteran, at the dwelling he and one of his sons shared at the cul-de-sac of an extended dirt road.
Hasson was feeling pretty down without the phone, TV, or the meals he shared with friends at a Senior Center in Woodstock.
He was positively giddy throughout a phone interview on Monday. He thought about the birthday parade and the scores of greeting cards that had been presented to him.
Three of his four daughters, as well as his toddler great-granddaughter, who resides in Martha’s Vineyard, attended the gathering.
Mr. Hasson continued his wit by saying, “If one desires to be a hero, the trick is to outlive everyone else,” laughing at his own joke. He’s definitely anticipating being released from the COVID-19 shut down one of these days, and he’s relieved to have made it this far.
Every day was an adventure, Hasson said as he reflected on his time in the military and as a country plumber in the Cavendish region.
It is clear that he plans to hit the ground running soon because he not only got both his vaccines but also began hanging out in the vicinity of the roadway.
Those are clear indicators that the 95-year-old man plans to live to be a century-old and have fun while doing so.
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